In any 2 sided deal, both overdoing and under doing are hazardous. And,
by chance, if both happens simultaneously, it is entirely fatal,
courtesy irritation and pain.
Substitution seems so easy for few people. But often the substituted do not have the stabilizing polar protic solvents. Maybe it was a state of coexistence throughout. But in this mental world of me first and then everything else, unlike the much simpler ionic world, coexistence is way too unacceptable - a complete no-no.
Disappointment maybe inadvertent but is the inevitable consequence. Expressionless internal cribbing and crying makes you bit more dead day by day. The blank expression or even the usual smile are the usual refuges from persistent public interview and perpetual murder. An usual death the teenager dies nearly everyday.